On today’s episode Donna sits down with Megan Watson. Megan is a wife, daughter an a passionate follower of Christ. Megan’s testimony offers healing, transparency and hope as she share’s about her picture perfect life that wasn’t so perfect after all.
On this episode of glory glasses we are joined be Dianna Byrd. She gives us an up close view of how God has used scripture to not only change her life but also direct it. You will hear how God has made His word come alive in Dianna’s life.
Donna sits down with Emily Richards as she shares how God has covered her with his grace in the darkest times. Emily’s story is not one she would have ever signed up for but she sees God’s goodness weaved through out it. What a blessing to have Emily join us.
So excited to share with you my interview with the ever so sweet Brandy Dowdey. Brandy and her husband, John offer love to our local community in so many ways through their church Church at the Crossing – Dothan, Al.
You might want to grab a paper and pen because she is going to share with us some awesome quotes. Thank you Brandy for being my first guest!
We’ve enjoyed several days of temperatures in the upper 70’s and a few in the 80’s. In the south that means don’t blink or you will find yourself missing Spring. Our mild winters lead us straight to the hot days of summer. I love spring and all that it represents. The excitement of trees budding, grass turning green, flowers blooming and, not to mention, I love Easter candy.
My excitement makes focusing on my list of cleaning and planting a little easier for my ADD brain. I begin sketching out flower bed plans, researching plants, and every way possible to organize a closet. Usually, my list of cleaning and planning goes far longer than my actual achievement. Just as spring time brings excitement for growth and new things to come, it is also a time to get rid of the old stuff we have in the crooks, crevices, and crannies of our homes and our hearts.
I began this past weekend preparing to complete one of my spring ideas. First on my list was a flower bed that continues to bring me grief. Nothing seems to live long or grow very much in this bed. Well nothing except, WEEDS!! Eight years I’ve battled this bed. I was reminded how hard this fight has been when I pulled up a dead plant left over from last year. I think it died soon after I planted it last spring, yet there it was still in the bed. A year later and I’m just now pulling it out. Despite my history I’m determined this year will be a success. Take caution, WEEDS! Your time is up! Take hope plants! I will not let you die!
Why is it so hard sometimes to get it all accomplished and keep it all going? Our momentum sometimes gets blocked by our personal defeats, distractions, and desires. Instead of cleaning our hearts we stick it out of sight, out of mind or can I suggest we sweep it into the crevices of our heart. Maybe it even sprouts there like my weeds and we just don’t take time to pull it up. It took lots of effort on a beautiful Saturday morning to dig out tons of weeds, dead plants, and put out new soil. You see if we had just put out new soil the weeds would have just grown right through and would have still been rooted in every area of the flower bed. We had to dig them up. Much to my back’s dislike! My husband reminded me, as impatient as I was, we couldn’t begin adding new soil until all the old plants and weeds had been removed.
How do we remove those things in our hearts that do not need to be there? Possibly we’ve even forgotten they are there. We enjoy looking forward instead of looking back or inside. This spring let’s not let what’s in the crooks, crevices, and crannies of our hearts to jump out and snag our momentum to grow in the Lord. Let’s take time to clean.
Have mercy on me, O God,
according to your steadfast love;
according to your abundant mercy
blot out my transgressions.
2 Wash me thoroughly from my iniquity,
and cleanse me from my sin!
3 For I know my transgressions,
and my sin is ever before me.
4 Against you, you only, have I sinned
and done what is evil in your sight,
so that you may be justified in your words
and blameless in your judgment.
5 Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity,
and in sin did my mother conceive me.
6 Behold, you delight in truth in the inward being,
and you teach me wisdom in the secret heart.
7 Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean;
wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.
8 Let me hear joy and gladness;
let the bones that you have broken rejoice.
9 Hide your face from my sins,
and blot out all my iniquities.
10 Create in me a clean heart, O God,
and renew a right[b] spirit within me.
11 Cast me not away from your presence,
and take not your Holy Spirit from me.
12 Restore to me the joy of your salvation,
and uphold me with a willing spirit.
- Pray for a clean heart. Psalm 51 shows us how to ask God for a clean heart. Don’t store things in your mind or heart that are not from God. Often times we hold on to memories and hoard up broken emotions in order to validate the wrongdoing done to us. Our spiritual life will pay the price until the soil of our heart is without them.
- Plead guilty. Admit to God our transgressions. Holding on to things that do not push us forward only feeds to our pride. Pride will blind us and trip us. Holding on to things or people even though we know God has told us different will feed our fears and continue to stunt our growth.
- Place yourself in His presence. God is our hiding place, our shield and His word is our hope. Stand in His light and it will be a lamp to your feet. Spend extra time in worship and His word. It will ignite a momentum that nothing can slow down. I’m reminded of when Moses said to God,”If You don’t go with us, do not send us up from here.” Remaining in His presence it vital to our stamina and success.
- Plant new seeds. Hide his word in your heart so that it will provide strength in both days of trouble and in moments of weakness. Testify to others what makes your garden grow. Tell them how your spring cleaning the crooks, crevices, and crannies of your heart so that changed your life will be changed forever!
Recently I attended a local fair in my community. Fall in south Alabama is embraced by the National Peanut Festival. Just like football marks fall beginning, our fair means it’s time for jackets and that the holidays are just around the corner. We celebrate our fair on a large scale with many civic groups and venders offering food you can only enjoy during our Nut-Fest.
While standing in line for the best corn dog ever, I noticed a young family that I knew eating at the booth next to me. I waved; they waved back as they were encouraging their little ones to finish their dinner with all the excitement booming around them. I asked if they were having fun. Mom gestured with an over exaggerated, “Oh, yeah!” I knew exactly what she meant. The fair comes with its own set of vices. Fighting the long line of bumper to bumper traffic, weaving through the crowds while managing to all stay together, spending more money than you expected on food and rides are all part of the fair experience. Sometimes these negatives make us ask, “Is it worth it?”
As I walked away, I realized my friend really only has a few more years bringing her little ones to the fair. I remembered my kids were round 11 or 12 when we started meeting friends at the fair. Although I was somewhere in the vicinity, in their eyes they were DEFINITLY not with Mom! So really this young friend of mine’s number of trips to the fair with a family filled with wide eyed excitement could be as low as five. You could count on one hand how many more times she will be able to come with a family that resembles the one before her.
Amazed at the reality of how little time we have with our kids compared to our lifetime of activities with them, I fought the urge to stop and share this info with another mom I passed whose child was pitching a fit to ride one more time or the dad who was carrying his little girl on his shoulders while she happily wrapped her cotton candy glazed fingers through his hair. I just wanted to shout “FIVE! Just five more trips! It’s all you have.” I know I sound like an overdramatic empty nester! Although my nest isn’t quite empty yet, it is so far past the trying years of young children. The message to enjoy it, embrace it, and etch it into your mind because it will one day be a delightful memory is my strong reality. Even the tantrums and yes, even the sticky fingers will bring a smile one day in hind sight.
God spoke to me later reminding me of how my revelation at the fair is parallel with our spiritual journey. We succumb to circumstances (often with drudgery and defeat) thinking it will last forever, but in actuality it is usually a small season of our life. Sometimes battles we face do last a lifetime, but usually if we could step back and see the big picture, we would be reminded of God’s character and presence in our lives and the small sliver of the pie we are facing at the moment.
I wonder if at times the angels around us are not whispering – “He’s praying for you right this moment. He has had me stationed by you every step of the way. Slow down and you will see His hand.”
“Therefore He is able also to save forever those who draw near to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them” (Hebrews 7:25).
When life seems hard, bleak, and chaotic Jesus is praying for us. He is praying for our spiritual endurance, longevity and effectiveness. So many times we are paced to hold our breath until our situation exhaust itself. The thought that I am on His prayer list is incredibly humbling and reminds me it’s worth it.
“Teach us to number our days from Psalms” is a request that offers an answer that is forever evolving. Understanding the grace received daily and the love that is poured out just because we are His, is a lifelong task. May we enjoy it, embrace it, and etch it into our minds because it will also bring a smile.
12Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.
13 Relent, Lord! How long will it be? Have compassion on your servants. 14 Satisfy us in the morning with your unfailing love, that we may sing for joy and be glad all our days. 15 Make us glad for as many days as you have afflicted us, for as many years as we have seen trouble. 16 May your deeds be shown to your servants, your splendor to their children.
17 May the favor[a] of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us— yes, establish the work of our hands.
I then shall live as one who’s been forgiven.
I’ll walk with joy to know my debts are paid.
I know my name is clear before my Father;
I am His child and I am not afraid.
So, greatly pardoned, I’ll forgive my brother;
The law of love I gladly will obey.
I then shall live as one who’s learned compassion.
I’ve been so loved, that I’ll risk loving too.
I know how fear builds walls instead of bridges;
I’ll dare to see another’s point of view.
And when relationships demand commitment,
Then I’ll be there to care and follow through.
Your Kingdom come around and through and in me;
Your power and glory, let them shine through me.
Your Hallowed Name, O may I bear with honor,
And may Your living Kingdom come in me.
The Bread of Life, O may I share with honor,
And may You feed a hungry world through me.
Amen, Amen, Amen
Written by: PHELPS, DAVID / GAITHER, GLORIA L / DP,
Will I struggle for survival this year or find strength and grow stronger?
This past year is somewhat of a blur. It is as if with each month that passed, the earth spun faster and faster.
A lot of circumstances requiring much thought and prayer were nestled in each spin. Medical uncertainty, medical emergencies, rebellion, regret, and many deaths are just a few of the storms that blew into the lives of my family and friends. As a wife, mother and friend I felt the most inadequacy I can remember ever feeling. Overwhelmed by the thoughts of the “What if’s?” and the “What then’s?”. The depth of hurt and consequences that were happening and could happen seemed to echo in my mind endlessly leaving me drained and spent.
During the last months of the year I was definitely in “Survival Mode.” I coasted the latter months on prayers of survival and protection hoping we would dodge another issue.
As the New Year has begun, I have rested in the calmness and offered many thanks to God. God prodded the thought of having another option than simply SURVIVAL. Would I focus on surviving the circumstances that come my way over this next year, or would I focus on strengthening myself spiritually, mentally, and physically?
To be honest, I ended the 2014 year with my emotions, fears, and my regrets higher that my faith.
God has blessed me with a few weeks to breathe from issues to battle. During this reprieve I have asked myself “Do you want to continue to survive the storms and be a weary mess afterwards or be stronger after they pass?” He seemed to give me a plan of action.
This is not a resolution list by any means; it is a strengthening plan to put into action. I know if I do not seek areas to strengthen myself in the Lord, my survival will someday leave me too weak to combat storms that will come against me. The reality of that probability has hit closer to home than I like to admit.
My strengthening plan:
1.) Abide in Christ
4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. 5 I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.
I will strive to get up early, stay up late, drop responsibilities, take a day off or whatever it takes to spend time hearing from God and refueling by His grace and love. I will dedicate time to memorizing scripture to hide in my heart when my storm is louder than His voice.
2.) Acknowledge Christ
“My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9 Giving Jesus Christ the Lordship of my life each and every day settles the matter each morning before I start taking control. Thankful acknowledgment for His grace in my life, which is never ending for me (and those around me), helps me do just this. It’s by that grace and submission I have the blessings in my life.
3.) Adhere to His Plan
I heard Ron Dunn share once “Good and evil run on parallel tracks; and usually arrive at the same time.” I have found this to be especially true this past year. Whatever my circumstances I will adhere to the Sovern will of God and trust His presence and love through everything good or bad.
4.) Ask Him to Work
20 Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, 21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen. Eph 3:20-21
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Philippians 4:5
So many times I’ve made the mistake of listing ways for God to answer my prayers. I’ve witnessed God’s hand this past year answer prayers or bring to light circumstances in ways I could not have imagined. His way is so much better than our way. Adhering to journaling my prayers and His answers so that I will be reminded one day during a future storm that His power and plan is greater than we could ever imagine.
There will soon be thunder in the distance heading your way. What’s your plan?
For the past week I have caught myself shedding a tear without realizing I was crying. While driving to work, trying to fall asleep, having my morning coffee I have felt a tear on my cheek after pondering on my family’s fast approaching change. I don’t think I could even explain to you or myself the emotion that is producing such tears.
A week from today my husband and I will tell everyone goodnight, lock the doors, turn out the lights, and then I will lay my head on my pillow with an overwhelming thankfulness that all my children are home in their beds safe and sound. Over the past several years, these nights have been few and far between but much anticipated and relished by this mom. I have always, like most parents, fallen asleep thinking and praying for my kids. When they were small I loved to walk down the hall and peek in as they slept. I was always blessed by the peacefulness I witnessed as they slept. My favorite part of the day is at bedtime when everyone is home and all is quiet. The quiet has always given me a sense of rest and thankfulness. My children are occupied, safe and free of harm for the moment. As this thought comes to my mind, tears fall that my oldest is now a man all grown and on his own. His room will soon be transformed to a guest room. In the future when I lay my hand on the door to gently open it to peek in, I will remember the little blonde headed boy hard to wake up for school, the teenager who assured me “Mom, I got this”, and the young man who packed up for college.
Next week my son will bring a new member into our family. The thought of her being my daughter in-law has brought tears as well. Loving her is so easy and my gratitude for her has brought tears down my cheeks for sure. She is the light of his life and brings a huge smile to his face. She is beautiful inside and out. Her compassion, thoughtfulness and love for Jesus Christ far exceeds the prayers I had prayed for his mate. They bring laughter and stability to each other and to those around them. God has joined them with a like minded passion for ministry where ever it leads. I’m thankful she will take my role as number one lady in his life. I pray I will be able to bless her in the years to come as much as she has blessed me with her love for our son.
My trail of tears is evidence of past blessings and future blessings. They are a reminder to me that parenting changes more often than we would like. Just as we find a rhythm and normalcy, they take a turn in a different direction. This perspective is not from perfection by any means but from the reality that your time is quick. Moments are fewer than our simple minds would lead us to believe. My role as a parent is the most significant task I will ever encounter. Proverbs 22:5-7 instructs us to teach our children in the way he should go.
God reminded me through my tearful thoughts of 5 approaches that I have learned as a mother that have helped me stay focused to instruct my children in the way God would have them go.
- Be Authentic Our children need to see our faith. They need to witness the imperfections of our personalities, and our stride to allow the Holy Spirit to fill these imperfections is faith building for us and our children. They most likely have some of those same weaknesses and need to witness how to overcome them to have victory over areas in their life. Our actions need to be the same whether at home or in public. Eyes are watching us closer than we think. What our children see will give them a character reference they will use the rest of their lives. Authentic always trumps perfection.
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen”. Hebs. 11:1
- Be Appreciative Often times we as parents get so caught up in the business of life we fail to see and appreciate our blessings. Not only the blessings of good health and provisions but the blessings of growth. Often times we grow more during times of heartache and trouble. Those are the times that lead us and our children to humility and heart change. It’s hard to sit back when our children encounter hurt and disappointment. We want to jump in quickly and take it away or make decisions for them. When they experience the grace of God in times of repentance or regret it depends their relationship with their heavenly Father. We must be grateful for the work in their hearts no matter the circumstances.
In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 1 Thess 5:18
- Be Affirming Spiritually Parents usually find it natural to affirm good grades, achievements in sports or hobbies. We have to affirm spiritual truths when we see them in our children’s lives and those around us. Affirming to the next generation the spiritual calling and purpose on our lives is of utmost importance. We sometimes lead our children with the assumption that they will grow up to have a reverence to God and His purpose in their lives. This may not be the case. Ratifying the importance and place of lordship is crucial in raising spiritually mature young adults and will help clarify their calling in life.
“Therefore you shall lay up these words of mine in your heart and in your soul, and bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall teach them to your children, speaking of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. Deuteronomy 11:18-19
- Be Active Mothers are pros at taking everyone’s schedule and combining it into one master calendar. The calendar that rules the household. Practices, appointments, activities fill up the squares with their own special colors and codes. All three of my children are as active as most average kids these days. I so enjoy the sideline view of the sports world when my children are playing. The happiness all of that activity has brought me cannot compare with the overwhelming blessing of being active alongside my kids serving God. I was able to witness firsthand the “Jesus” moments in their lives. I was blessed to witness them as God led them to the altar of repentance and pray with them countless times. I wouldn’t trade a single youth worship service or camp for anything. No matter how tired I was or how loud the music was it was well worth the tiny inconvenience. Watching your children worship the Lord brings blessing after blessing.
“Only be on your guard and diligently watch yourselves, so that you don’t forget the things your eyes have seen and so that they don’t slip from your mind as long as you live. Teach them to your children and your grandchildren. Deuteronomy 4:8-10
- Be Alert Mother’s intuition has a way of keeping us aware when things aren’t just right with our families. That gut feeling can lead to powerful prayers. As this world reaches to entangle our children, we have to stay alert to the enemy. Jesus prayed for His disciples in John 17 “ I do not pray that You should take them out of the world, but that You should keep them from the evil one. 16 They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. 17 Sanctify them by Your truth. Your word is truth”. It’s hard to imagine that anyone could love our children more than we do. But God does just that. He offers a love that gives grace and forgiveness to them if only they surrender. We must be alert to God’s conviction in their lives and call for them. Instilling God’s word by incorporating God in every area of your family’s life is crucial to their spiritual faith. Family worship, a family prayer box, or a family memory verse to claim for a season can all be instruments used to protect your child from the evil one.
Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour 1 Peter 5:8
As my head hits the pillow next week this “Mother of the Groom” may continue to shed a tear or two. Each tear will be a reminder that I am blessed beyond measure. Thank you Lord for my new sweet member of my family and being there to help me as I’ve had the honor of being a Mom to my oldest fellow.
Yesterday a long time friend’s life was remembered and celebrated. I unfortunately, was not able to attend his funeral but have heard accounts through mutual friends of his steadfastness of faith and love for our Lord Jesus Christ. Todd Smith was definitely all of those things and more. His heart was always open for opportunities to help others and spread the gospel. I can remember asking Todd to explain to a student I had years ago the nuts and bolts of purchasing a car. He calmly and patiently took time from his busy schedule and explained to this sweet girl exactly the steps she needed to take. It seems like yesterday that we all sat in Sunday School together as the young married. As I remembered Todd, and prayed for his wife Lori and their four children yesterday, God reminded me of how this family taught me spiritual lessons long ago.
Lori and her children offered to the Lord a sacrifice of praise as they mourned the loss of their beloved husband and father. At a moment in life when there seems to be so much confusion and hurt, they knew the one thing that needed to be done, was to offer praise to their heavenly father. My facebook newsfeed was full of witnessing accounts of the awesome strength seen from the family and the amazement that they could stand strong and worship during this time. I myself witnessed this same ability in another Smith relative years ago. It is a picture that stays in my mind and reminds me to find strength to praise God in times of trouble.
Lori’s mother, Carlene Hoskins, also exhibited the strength so many have been amazed by, years ago. She was one of several people who shared their testimony as part of a musical that our church performed. “God With Us” was a powerful event that echoed praise to God in all our circumstances. Mrs. Carlene did just that. After fighting more than one battle against cancer she spoke of God’s presence and power to the crowds that gathered. I don’t remember all the words she spoke but I will never forget watching her as she stood at her seat after speaking demonstrating true worship. Although she was in a crowded sanctuary she worshiped as if she was standing at the foot of Jesus. She raised her hands in praise to the one who saved her soul and walked with her every step of the way. You could tell that in her moments of pain and weakness He had made her strong and she had not forgotten.
By him therefore let us offer the sacrifice of praise to God continually, that is, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to his name. Hebrews 13:15
That mental picture of Mrs. Carlene has returned through the years when I’ve taught about worship or when I’ve been asked questions about worship. “It is well with my soul” was perfectly demonstrated by Lori’s wonderful mother years ago and now Lori herself has demonstrated it again. What a spiritual heritage the Smith family lives before us! My heart aches for Todd’s family and their loss and for the days they face. My prayers will continue for you all. Thank you for being a vessel God uses to teach us that there is power in His presence.